Where do I start, mmmh.. We all have been there, running errands here and there then suddenly your child strikes like thunder, boom!! Tantrums that you never encountered.
I can tell from the moment my child wakes up if he is going to have a good or bad day. Toddlers have a lot going on in their tiny little brains, from learning how to talk, reading, manners, sharing, expressing their problems or their needs.
Since they are unable to communicate with us on how they feel or what they exactly want, that’s when hell breaks loose. They loose control in the middle of what you are doing, and that’s when you just stand and wonder what to do next.
And him being 2 years old I know am not even half way done with his crazy tantrums but the following have helped me pull through
- Removing him from the situation because at that moment his mind is running millions of miles away. Don’t worry what other people will think, to those who got kids, they will definitely understand.
- Don’t loose your cool, if you scold or scream while they are having their tantrums you will only make matters worse. Help them calm down because at the end of the day you are the bigger person.
- Talk to your child after he has calm down, he may not like it but trust me you are teaching him a lesson.
- Assure them that they are good kids no matter what happens.
- Remind him that you still love them, because kids do not want to upset their parents and the best way to handle tantrums is to tell them they are good kids. Hug them and give them a kiss or two.
Stay calm you can handle them😊😂